Every year, Pennsylvania and New Jersey retirees conclude the taxes are chasing them south, and every year some of them are right and some are trading a real exemption for a brochure. This guide runs the actual four-state math for retirees: what Pennsylvania and New Jersey really tax, what Delaware and Florida really change, how to change domicile so it survives an audit, and, the part nobody sequences correctly, when to sell the house relative to the move. It is independent research built on the states’ own tax guidance.
What actually drives the move: the inheritance tax
For Pennsylvania retirees the income tax case for leaving is weak: PA already exempts Social Security, pensions, and retirement account distributions, and taxes the rest at a flat 3.07%. The driver is the inheritance tax: 4.5% to children, 12% to siblings, 15% to others, no threshold, house included. For New Jersey retirees the case is broader: high property taxes, income tax on retirement income above the pension exclusion, and an inheritance tax on non-lineal heirs. Name the actual line item you are fleeing before pricing the move; it decides whether Delaware, Florida, or staying put wins.
PA, NJ, DE, FL: the retiree tax table
| Line | Pennsylvania | New Jersey | Delaware | Florida |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Retirement income | Fully exempt (SS, pensions, IRA/401k) | SS exempt; pension exclusion phases by income | $12,500/person exclusion at 60+; SS exempt | No income tax |
| Other income | Flat 3.07% | Graduated to 10.75% | Graduated to 6.6% over $60,000 | None |
| Sales tax | 6% (7-8% Philadelphia area) | 6.625% | None | 6% plus local |
| Property tax | Moderate to high by district | Highest in the nation in many towns | Roughly 0.5 to 0.6% effective; senior school credit up to $500 (10-year rule for new arrivals) | Moderate; homestead exemption and 3% Save Our Homes cap |
| Estate/inheritance at death | Inheritance tax: 4.5% children / 12% siblings / 15% others | Inheritance tax on non-lineal heirs (Class C/D); none on spouses/descendants | None | None |
| The catch | Death tax on everything | Carrying costs while alive | Retirement income above $12,500/person is taxed | Insurance costs; distance from family |
Changing domicile so it holds up
- 01Respect the 183-day floor: keep a home in the old state and exceed 183 days there and you are a statutory resident regardless of paperwork. Keep a day-count log; auditors ask for one.
- 02Move the factor pattern, not just the license: voting, vehicles, doctors, accountants, congregation, homestead claims, estate documents, and the home that is plainly primary. Half-moved patterns are what New Jersey residency audits are built to catch.
- 03File the transition correctly: part-year returns in the exit year, Florida’s declaration of domicile and homestead application (or Delaware’s residency steps), and consistent addresses on every 1099 thereafter.
- 04Snowbirds should decide, not drift: six months and a day is a plan; “we’re mostly down there now” is an audit.
Sell first, then move: the sequencing math
- Sell the primary residence while still a resident: the federal $250,000/$500,000 exclusion covers most longtime owners, and New Jersey residents sidestep the GIT/REP nonresident withholding that would otherwise take 2% of the price at closing, per the Division of Taxation and our shore house guide, which covers the same mechanics.
- Do not rent the old house out casually: years of rental before a sale erode the exclusion’s coverage and add depreciation recapture; if a rental is the plan, plan it, per the rental property tax guide.
- Coordinate the tax year: the sale, the move, and any CCRC or community buy-in on the other end belong in one adviser’s spreadsheet; Delaware’s CCRCs (several within an hour of Philadelphia) make a lower-key alternative to the Florida leap, and the three-way decision guide frames what the destination should be at all.
The house sale that funds the move
Whichever state wins, the move is funded by a Pennsylvania or New Jersey house sale executed on a deadline, usually with a settlement date coordinated against a purchase or lease on the other end. The playbook is the standard one done carefully: the valuation first, the net proceeds calculator for the transfer taxes and municipal certifications (New Jersey’s senior schedule applies at 62+), the room-by-room clear-out started early because interstate moves punish procrastination, and a listing calendar that lands the closing before the domicile clock starts.
Samantha, SRES®, is licensed in Pennsylvania and New Jersey and sells the houses that fund exactly this move. If Delaware or Florida is the plan, start with the free valuation, and ask her how the sale calendar fits the domicile calendar. Leave for the right line item, sell in the right order, and let the new state’s brochure earn its claims.